The Other 4 Love Languages can get gifts too!
Nothing says “I love you, you mean the world to me” like gifts! Whether it’s the gift of words, the gift of love, physical gifts, or even the gift of our time. According to the love language theory, every person has a language that’s unique to them and you must pay attention to your partner to find out what their unique language is. Before we dive deeper what are these love languages? There are 5 basic love languages, and one person can have a combination of two or more, they are Quality time, Words of Affirmation, physical touch, acts of service, and receiving gifts. Knowing your partners love language means you can surprise them with a gift that will be imprinted in their memory for life, now that’s how you make a constant impact! So, do you speak your partners’ language? Doesn’t matter whether you do or you don’t because we have come up with an amazing list that will take care of all of that.
Words of Affirmation
Words of affirmation are for those who are lovers of words, whether written or spoken. If your partner has a thing for words when they come from you, then the Affirmation Sticky note by Vision is the perfect gift! It has beautiful affirmations they can put up anywhere and be reminded of just how much you love them.
When your partner would rather just spend time with you than receive gifts or do anything else, you should know that this is the love language they speak. Just being with you makes them happy, makes them smile, and makes them feel loved. The perfect gift for a partner who speaks quality time is this Coconut Milk Bath by Gavin Luxe! Talk about an optimum relaxation bath time where you just let the milk seep into both your skins as you enjoy each other’s company. This is one gift that your partner would not be forgetting soon.
For some its physical touch brings that satisfactory uncontrollable grin. With that little caress of their hand, kiss on the forehead, the beautiful cuddle moments, and endless hugs, you are speaking their language. There will be times when you are not around to wrap them up and that’s when this fabulous Silked Pillow Sleeve will come in handy. The silk pillow sleeve by Silked feels like heaven on the skin and just reminds your partner of what it's like to have you around. Even when you are present it’s a perfect anti-aging pillow sleeve so win-win!
Acts of Service
That simple act of doing the dishes, or cleaning up the house, simply doing something that they would usually do to show how much you appreciate them can trigger some “awwws” and tears for some. A family friend of mine, Ayanna Williams, owns a cleaning service franchise, that services Essex County/Union, NJ areas (interested? Send me a DM). There are plenty of Black-owned service companies out there for you to patronize. From landscaping to masseuses, like Compliments Mobile Massage service they come right to your NJ home! A quick internet search makes it easy to find the perfect gift for the “acts of service” language user.
Gift-giving does not have to be extravagant to be sweet. For people who have partners that speak this love language, it’s not so much about what you give, it’s more about just giving it. So don’t fret, even the smallest gift can mean the world just because it’s coming from you. It’s the thought behind the gift that counts that’s why the Bifties Gifts build a box feature is perfect for this because you get to build a box filled with thoughtful items that you know your partner would love. We simply help you curate the perfect gift, package it up, and send if off for you!
So, there you have it, could you relate to any of these languages? Then go right ahead and put a smile on your partner’s face, with any one of these ideas.